But Your Plan Doesn't Match Reality

You know what to do and maybe you have years of experience. 

Yet, life has a way of throwing unexpected obstacles you're way.

Stormy weather, sudden injuries, accidents, or illnesses can prevent you from achieving our goals. 

Meet Your Invisible Opponent

When we face obstacles, our biggest enemy often lives between our own ears.

It's our brain's bias for negativity, overshadowing the positives in our lives.

This tendency, known as positive-negative asymmetry, is completely natural but not always useful.

And here's the key point:

The Problem Isn't The Problem

The real issue is our thinking about the problem:

• Thinking that we shouldn't have problems.
• Believing that our equestrian life should be obstacle-free.
• Or that everyone else's journey is without problems, except ours.

But let's face the truth:

• Equestrian live isn't like a Hollywood movie where "they lived happily ever after".
• Life has never been, nor will it ever be, a constant parade of rainbows, unicorns and daisies— not for anyone!
• Life has always been a mix of highs and lows — and it's the same for everyone, without exception.

Therefore, the art of equestrian life isn't about avoiding obstacles but about learning how to transform them into opportunities for growth and finding meaning.

Let Me Help You Get Over, Under, Around or Through Any Obstacle

If we haven't met yet...

I'm Marijke de Jong, not only a master horse trainer and mentor instructor, but also a fellow traveral on this challenging journey called life.

Like you, I've faced many challenging situations, both personally and with my horses.

Each obstacle seemed like a test, making me feel like I almost wanted to quit...

But during these moments, I made a crucial discovery: 

• The obstacles weren't working against me, they were actually unfolding in my life for me.
• An obstacle isn't a roadblock—it's part of the journey that helps you grow. Yes, the obstacle IS the way.
• Our brain is the most sophisticated tool on the planet, yet an unsupervised brain can not only ruin our training sessions, but our enrire life!

Therefore:

• It's essential to not just train our horses but also train our own brains.  
• With mental gymnatics and the right mental exercises, we can transform any stumbling block into a stepping stone.

I discovered an ancient, yet highly effective and transformative tool to turn any obstacle into an opportunity for incredible growth.

That's why I'm excited to invite you to my Scholars Program. 

But before we continue, first a quick 'heads-up':

Even though Self-Mastery Scholars has been wonderfully designed to help you overcome obstacles in a structured way as easily as possible, it still requires some dedication and persistent effort on your part.

At the end of the day, YOU are the only person who can change what to think,f eel and do—not me, not a book, not a set of how-to videos, not a brand-new membership…. so I’m not about to insult your intelligence by telling you this program will do the magic for you.

However, if you really want to feel better on a consistent basis, and are willing to take some action and put some effort in, then this will be of interest to you.

You can learn how to apply a groundbreaking tool that can change your life in an instant.

So let's dive in, and explore what you'll receive...

1. The STEREO Map

The 6-Stage Foundation Course

Imagine having a map that not only shows you where to go, but breaks through roadblocks like they're nothing. That's the STEREO map.

It's an ancient tool, yet incredibly effective for handling the challenges of today's world. This tool isn't just about positive thinking and feeling good—it's designed to help you overcome challenges and create the results you truly want.

And because I'm deeply commited to your success, you're getting these impactul worksheets. They are like  personal trainers for your brain, filled with mental exercises that help you become the best version of yourself.

✔ Value € 997  Included with your membership

2. The Self-Mastery Library

Tools You'll Use Forever

After you mastered the STEREO map, what comes next? The Self-Mastery Library— a guided path to widen, broaden, deepen and level up every aspect of your personal development.

It's packed with life-changing masterclasses and workbooks on topics like limiting beliefs, fear of failure, overthinking, negative self-talk, work stress, confidence, habit stacking, action taking, time management, relationships and so much more. 

Each resource is designed to add layers to your foundation, enrich your growth and to support your next leap.   

✔ Value € 2597  Included with your membership

3. Weekly Live Group Coaching

Empowerment in Action

Step into a space where we truly apply what we've learned. This is where the foundational course and self-mastery library come alive. 

Get coached personally by me, or watch other people get coached—which gives you valuable insights into your own life, and deepens your understanding and application of the self-mastery lessons.

Seeing others from different parts of the world facing the same problems as you do reminds us we're not alone. Having these struggles is totally normal and together, we can get through any challenge. 

✔ Value € 197/m Included with your membership

If you keep thinking what you've always thought, feeling what you've always felt, and doing what you've always done...

...you'll get what you've always gotten!

For things to change, we must change!

Just one thought, one sentence at a time.

As simple as that!